This book is a
heartfelt companion

designed to walk alongside you through the shadows of grief.

If you find yourself grappling with the profound pain of losing a loved one, know that you are not alone.

Rather than offering platitudes about strength or the passage of time, I invite you to embrace the complexity of your emotions. Here, your feelings are validated, your sorrow acknowledged, and your journey respected. Together, we will explore the intricacies of loss, allowing you to feel seen and understood as you navigate this difficult path. Allow this book to be a safe haven where you can reflect, grieve, and ultimately find a way to heal—one gentle step at a time.

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How are you feeling in these moments when the unspeakable has happened?

You have lost a loved one, and your heart has shattered into a thousand pieces.

Due to the challenge we face when experiencing grief, I wrote Allow Me to Live My Grief… and Heal from the Inside Out, which I launched in Spanish, on August 8, 2022, honoring my mother on her birthday.

In this book, you’ll find…

Compassionate Understanding and Validation for Your Grief

The author shares her own personal story o loss, offering heartfelt empathy and validation as you navigate the emotional challenges of losing a loved one.

Practical Suggestions and Healing Rituals

You’ll find helpful guidance through various rituals and suggestions, offering tools to navigate your grief and find personal meaning during this difficult journey.

Support for Both the Bereaved and Those Who Accompany Them

This book not only supports those grieving but also offers insights and guidance for those who accompany them, helping to foster understanding and provide meaningful support during this time

How this book has helped others
transform their lives

Ligia is transparent and genuine, and she reflects this in her new book, where once again, she opens her heart and shares her personal experiences of grief to help us understand our own.

Mateo Gómez

Certified Thanatologist. Grief Counselor at Forest Lawn Cemeteries

For those of us who have lost a loved one, it is an enriching book that helps us on the path of grief and its transformation

Oralí Flores A.

Founder of PUDE, Certified ICC Coach, Grief Facilitator through ‘The 11 Principles of Transformation’ by Ligia M. Houben

It provides tools that allow readers not only to experience their own grief with less pain but also to be truly helpful in supporting family and friends, thus becoming healers and authentic sources of support.

Magaly Pérez Campos

“Let Me Live My Grief” aims to extend a hand, offering a lifeline when the nature of a loss leads the complex journey of life down dark paths.

Alfredo Sainz Blanco

Whether you read it in English or Spanish, you will learn about the different types of grief, which are not only related to death, but you will also see how Ligia herself deals with her own grief. She surely walks her talk!

Marily Reyes

When I found this book by Ligia Houben… it was a total transformation in how to overcome and understand my grief and start healing my sadness and doubts. It is a book that everyone should read. It is an extraordinary book.

Zuleika Merced

This new book is further proof that its author is someone who takes great pleasure in helping those who, sadly, find themselves, sooner or later, on the path of grief.

Maria Behar

The narration of the intense pain suffered by Dr. Houben after losing her mother, and the process of her grief, lend greater credibility to the healing process from the inside out, described with great sensitivity.

Octavio Orochena

Wonderful, it gives you a real sense of what grief is. The author, Ligia M. Houben, offers many ways to live through and transform grief. It has helped me a lot in healing my many losses.

Sandra Torres

This book is a gem for grieving hearts and for anyone who is seeking comfort on this transformational journey called grief.

Juan Carlos Morales Jr.

11 Principles of Transformation®

Note from the Author

I am Ligia, and like you, I have lost a loved one.

I welcome you with a hug and hope that you feel understood if you don’t know how to begin walking this path known as grief. You may feel confused and even frustrated by the many messages society sends us, as it is generally expected that we should be fine and move through grief as quickly as possible. Friends and family may say things that don’t help. That’s why I’m creating this space, where we can validate our grief and at the same time open our hearts to heal from the inside out, from our soul.